**Take Farnoosh’s quick survey here to enter to win a signed copy of A Healthy State of Panic.** Guest Eli Rallo is the author of the new book I Didn’t Know I Needed This, a to-do list of self-appreciation and validation and answers to questions like who texts first after the first date? What am I supposed to do with a broken heart? Eli is a fast-rising TikTok star and accomplished writer. In the episode, she shares details of her financial life, the root of her work ethic, and why writing is at the root of her multi-platform business.